Families whose relatives buried in graves at risk from shoreline retreat state that indecision over how to address the problem is causing them avoidable anguish concerning the eternal homes of their loved ones.
The council have identified three burial grounds in the villages of Happisburgh, Mundesley, and Trimingham as being in danger of being engulfed by the sea in the next few generations.
A recent report on the situation details a series of options, from doing nothing to disinterring bodies and relocating them in more secure sites. Officials maintain it is for local people to determine how to proceed.
“At the moment we’re in a state of uncertainty. It upsets me. They wanted this to serve as their final resting place, but it isn’t going to be because of the encroaching sea.”
Estimates indicate at least part of one graveyard could be claimed by the sea in the next 80 years, but some locals fear it will happen far earlier. “I think it’s got under 20 years, if you look at what’s happened in the last 30 years,” a farmer stated.
One resident recalled a school trip to the nearby village of Eccles, which has almost entirely vanished into the water, along with its place of worship and burial ground.
“It was possible to see human remains,” she said. “Certain people hold this idealized notion that people’s remains will just get carried away to the ocean. They won’t. People will take bones as mementos and go plundering graves looking for valuables. That is completely disrespectful.”
“I fear that the identical fate that befell at Eccles will occur at Happisburgh and there’ll be bones on the shore. I’d be disgusted by that.”
Along the shoreline lies the burial plot of a ex-soldier killed while working overseas. His mother expressed she could not sleep after learning her child's final plot might one day be moved.
“It does disturb me to think this may not remain his lasting resting place,” she said. “To our family it’s an important place to go.”
In her view, new burials should cease but says it is too soon to disturb current plots. “My preference for now is to do nothing and watch carefully, but an timely resolution must be made when a tipping point has been attained.”
The lack of consensus over when and how to handle the challenge has resulted in grieving relatives feeling exasperated and worried.
Some are calling for additional sea defences to delay the inevitable erosion and to permit burials to continue for now. Different voices contend the moment for moving graves is approaching.
“It is very emotive,” said one relative. “The official study was really good, but now there’s uncertainty about how it is implemented. And everybody is avoiding responsibility over who is accountable.”
A local official confirmed the burial sites were under the care of the church authorities. “Ultimately it is down to them to choose the path to take. Our role is here to help support them through that process with communities.”
He added there was time to consider all the choices. “We are talking many years before it begins getting lost.”
“There is no unified opinion on what should happen yet. We need productive local conversations to find the right solutions for each village.”
The prospect of the loss of the churches and graveyards was labeled one of “immense sadness for the area,” but faith leaders also spoke of a doctrine in life after death, offering a theological perspective on the physical loss of sacred ground.